By Lee Millen
I’ve always been attracted to simplicity. There’s something about it that is
so….. simple!
In fact, I am so
attracted to simplicity that I married my husband on the basis of his
simple-ness! Don’t get me wrong,
he is extremely clever and never ceases to amaze me with his ability to understand
anything and remember everything (which can also be highly annoying at times!)
but it is because he is refreshingly easy to work out. I appreciate this about him, like I
appreciate the simplicity of turning a TV on with the push of 1 button. There have been times when I have had
to phone my husband to ask him how to turn our TV on (a task that requires 3
remote controls and the pushing of 4 buttons).
I struggle with overcomplicated instructions, with too many
details, with unnecessary stuff, with excess. My home is
ordered to the point that every item has its place (including my husband and
children sometimes!!) and I get satisfaction from that. I’m not a minimalist, but I enjoy being
uncluttered –it brings my head calmness and peace that an otherwise busy
working day erodes away.
My pursuit of simplicity follows me to the
realm of social media and networking (this and the fact that I am a ‘slight’
technophobe). I don’t twitter or
tweet. I have no idea what MySpace
is other than in the context of ‘uh-humm, darling that is my space for my perfume, please leave your aftershave in its
allocated space’. I am not fussed
with Facebook and I definitely don’t blog!
I like the basics. I don’t hoard.
I love up-cycling, recycling, re-using, re-purposing. I’m a homemade kind of girl. I don’t over-consume. Or at least I thought I didn’t until a
friend gave me a book. Now I can’t
think straight and straight has always been my friend – I like straight and now
I can’t find it. The book is based
on an experimental mutiny against excess and its observations are cluttering my
head and I can’t handle it. I
DON’T DO CLUTTER!!
The reality is I have SO much. I am a consumer through and
through. I have far more than I
ever need. In fact, I rarely
need. I mostly want.
My basic needs are always met on a
daily basis. My kitchen cupboards
are stocked and my wardrobe is full (even when ‘I have nothing to wear’). Before I got married I could fit my
worldly possessions into the back of a car. Now, my possessions fill a 2-storey house, 2 sheds and a
playhouse, all of which I also own.
Really, compared to my contemporaries, this is very normal. In fact when
I compare myself to my contemporaries I believe I don’t have enough. But what if I compared myself to the
80% of the world’s population who live on 20% of the world’s resources (I
currently reside with the 20% of the world’s population who consume 80% of the
world’s resources). I am well
within the top 10% of the worlds wealthiest. Can’t be true, but when you consider that half the global population
lives on less than £1.29 a day, I really am rich.
Now there’s this growing tension within that
won’t go away. I look at Jesus and
see a man who portrayed a simple life which was marked by
under-consumption. Yet, when I
look at the same Jesus, I see a man that was also marked by extreme
generosity. Can radical simplicity
live in harmony with radical generosity?
The simple (and we all know I love simple) answer is yes, it can. Jesus did it, lived it, and modelled
it. We have our perfect example to
follow.
He even states it clearly
for us:
“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on
earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures
in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break
in and steal. For where your
treasure is, there your heart will be also.” (Matthew 6:19-21)
What is my treasure? Is it my possessions, my clothes, my wealth, my time, my
family, my God? If so, then that’s
where my heart is. I heard this not so long ago: ‘If you
want to know the condition of your heart before God, then simply look at where your
money is going.’ Fortunately, I
grew up with a very generous earthly father and I have a ridiculously generous
husband, both of whom I have learnt so much about being generous. I trust my heavenly Father implicitly, so there’s no need to
strive for the accumulation of belongings. He provides. Always. When you trust God, He takes you on the
most incredible adventure. It is
true when Paul writes in 2 Corinthians 9:11 ‘You will be made rich in every way
SO that you can be generous
on every occasion’ (emphasis mine!)
Don’t get me wrong, I am not encouraging a
spirit of poverty (although sometimes there’s a lesson in the less). We belong to the most generous,
abundant Father who delights in lavishing us with good gifts. Sometimes we struggle with this more,
feeling that we are not worthy of such attention from the King of Kings. It can be so mind-blowingly hard to get
my head around the truth that the God of the Universe wants to shower me with
so many good things, that I find it easier to just obtain them for myself!
So, here’s my challenge…I want to make
room in my life (in my time, in my family, in my home, in the work of my hands,
in my spending) to allow God the opportunity to lavish me with His goodness and
generosity. I want to simplify
areas in my life so that I can know His greatness more. Then, I simply want to share it! As He enriches me in every way, I want
to grow in being generous in every way.
After all, we are blessed to be a blessing (Genesis 12:2-3).
It’s easy to quote Bible verses and carry on
unchanged. Not this time. This time the penny has dropped……out of
my hand and into another’s. Let’s
face it, when considering a breath-taking life of generosity, our finances must
feature. Simple.
So to finish, here is an extract from the book
that shook my mind, heart and purse.
The book is called 7 by Jen Hatmaker. I dare you to read it and not be messed up.
“While it is easy to
become paralysed by the world’s suffering and the inequalities created by
corruption and greed, we actually hold immense power for change, simply by
virtue of our wealth and economic independence. Because we decide where our money goes. Never has so much wealth been so
concentrated; our prosperity is unprecedented. If enough of us decided to share, we would unleash a torrent
of justice to sweep away disparity, extreme poverty, and hopelessness.
The world is
waiting. Our kids are
watching. Time is wasting.
Are we willing?”
I am. Are you?
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